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We Have Proof That Your Teen Still Needs You

Jun 12, 2020
It is a common misconception that teenagers do not need their parents. You may even feel worried about your own teenager not needing you anymore. However, this could not be further from the truth. Your teenager may be able to fend for themselves in terms of cooking, cleaning and homework, but that does not mean you are no longer needed. In fact, there is proof that your teenager still needs you.

Neuroscientists who have studied the adolescent brain development have discovered that a teenager's transition into adolescence still leaves room for psychosocial development. What does this mean for parents? It means your teenager is going to need a strong, positive relationship with you as they grow and face new challenges.

Building A Bond

Building a bond with your teenager is just as important now as it was when they were younger. While it may seem like you are growing apart because of their age range, you can still find common ground you did not know was still there. You may discover you enjoy the same music or television show. If you cannot find much common ground, take an interest in the things they enjoy. A parent showing interest in their lives means more to a teenager than they may let on.

Room For Conversation

Another way to build a bond is to leave room for conversation with your teenager. Family meals, walks and even shopping trips can help break the ice between you and your teen. In addition to discussing interests and current events, step into their world to learn their thoughts and feelings, and be sure to do so with an open mind and open ears. If your teenager knows you are listening, they may open up when they need help with more personal conflicts.

Be A Support System

Your teenager is going to hear a mixture of comments from their peers, but what they need from you is honesty and support. If your teenager is worried about their grades for example, you can say something like "It is important to maintain your grades, but I used to struggle in certain subjects, and I can help you find a solution if you would like." Your teenager may be in the middle of a conflict with a friend, in which case you may say "This is not uncommon between friends, and I've learned that some friends grow apart, but we can figure out how to approach the situation together if you want." You are relating to your teenager and leaving the door open to solve it together, but you are not forcing or pressuring your teenager to come to you.

As your teenager moves into adolescence, they are going to need you to help them prepare for their future. Remember, there are also plenty of adults who still turn to their parents for advice, so your children are always going to need you. With a strong bond and plenty of support, you can shape your teenager into an adult who can keep an open mind and solve their own problems.

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